But when we come to judge others, it is not by ourselves as we really are that we judge them, but by an image that we have formed of ourselves from which we have left out everything that offends our vanity or would discredit us in the eyes of the world. To take a trivial instance: how scornful we are when we catch someone out telling a lie; but who can say that he has never told not one, but a hundred? 去书内

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    可当我们评判他人时,依据的并非真实的自己,而是我们刻意塑造出的形象——在这个形象里,所有有损虚荣心、或是会让自己在世人面前颜面尽失的缺点,都被我们一一剔除。举个小事为例:当我们撞见别人撒谎,总会嗤之以鼻;可又有谁能坦言,自己从未说过谎,别说一次,就连上百次都没有呢?

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