Pride and Prejudice

Nowadays, we always hear such a saying, "You can choose between love and bread, which one will you choose? There are countless examples in society that prove that marriage without love will eventually fail, and whether love without bread can go on for a long time?" There are also many such themes around us, like the TV series "Dwelling Small" a few years ago, which profoundly reveals that love without material basis is difficult to maintain, because people are always easy to be tempted by material things, so for love and bread which is more important, just like the chicken or the egg question, it is difficult to have a correct answer, the real answer is often varies from person to person. Therefore, the ultimate happiness of a person's life completely depends on our different attitudes and values towards marriage and love. Pride and Prejudice is a novel with love and marriage as the theme. The background of the novel is in the bourgeois society at that time. Through the narration of the wife of the little squire Bennet family looking for a husband for her five daughters to be married, and the combination of four young men and women, the novel shows the different attitudes towards love and marriage among girls from the middle-class family in the village. At the beginning of the novel, the reason why Mrs. Bennet is anxious to find a husband for her daughter and the dialogue between the hero also deeply reveal the essence of social bourgeois marriage at that time - the transaction of money and the combination of interests. As in ancient times,people should match their families. The idea of family class has been deeply rooted in the hearts of these so-called aristocrats. For them, marrying a woman with the wrong family or family would only be laughed at and dishonored. So marriage for them is just a comparison of family, there is no emotion is not important. In the novel, Elizabeth is one of the two most outstanding girls in the Bennet family. She is young and beautiful. Different from her sisters , she has a more independent opinion on love. She believes that love should not be simple material to decide,marriage can not play with,can not because of simple quality temptation to sacrifice their own life,at least she is not that kind of person who will go to great lengths to please men in order to become some lady of the manor. Although at that time, the marriage had to weigh the class status of both sides and the powerful money situation, especially for the family that had fallen down, the prospect of the five girls' marriage was not clear,but Elizabeth, this witty, lively, bold, far-sighted, dare to love and hate, has outstanding beauty and extraordinary temperament and courage, and has a kind heart and the courage to seek true love of the British gentleman Darcy, these two, there is an obvious difference in the family, pride of the man,prejudice of the woman,However, although the two have experienced a lot of grief and joy together, but finally still eliminate misunderstanding, come together, live a happy life. From this story, we can see that women’s the pursuit of personality independence and equal rights,we can also see the author Jane Austen's view of marriage that marriage based on material things isn’t happy, it is foolish to marry for property, status and money. Marrying without consideration of the above factors is also foolish, she is opposed to both for money ,she also opposed to playing with marriage, she emphasized the ideal marriage,ook emotion as the foundation of marriage. After reading this novel, I can only say that love is a beautiful thing. But if too rash and decide your own marriage based on material things,will certainly destroy a lifetime of happiness, so we must have principles in life, in the face of the temptation of interests can not easily waver, must have your bottom line. Although there are some so-called money worshipers in our society. But I still believe that there will be perfect love in the world. As long as we use sincere heart, we will find our own true happiness