reflection

First, who cannot control his appetites, who does not know the guidance of reason to resist the entanglements of present pleasure or pain, is lacking in virtue and industry, and is in danger of falling into nothingness. This quality of self-control is completely different from the lazy nature of human beings, so it should be cultivated as early as possible. At the same time, these habits and qualities are the real basis for future development and happiness, and should be instilled in children as early as possible. Second, if the child's spirit is overly depressed, if the child's spirit is overly beaten by too much discipline, he will lose his vitality. This situation is even more frightening than the first one. Young people who are wayward and unrestrained are usually vigorous and vigorous, and when they get on the right track, they tend to become brilliant and capable figures. People who are overly repressed and depressed are hard to pick up and achieve a career.