book review

This article made me realize how important family is. No matter where you are, your family will always think of you. No matter how strong you are, your family will always be your weakness. The influence of our parents will always stay with us for a long time. Some family members may no longer be in this world, but they will be in our lives and in our memories in some other form, like the author's mother. For the author, smelling lilacs is like meeting her mother. Help children to be independent in today's China, many fam ilies have only one child, so children are usually favored by all family members. More and children are used to relying o n their parents and lack the ability to solve pblems indepen dently. First of all, there are some ways to children to be ind ependent. Children should have the opportunity to see the world aund them. He must understand that there are vaous competitio ns in this world. Everyone can find his or her place in societ y only thugh individual efforts. Second, parents should give their children enough to make them feel comfortable. It is impossible to require children to rely on their parents. Once a child needs fm the begin ning without any, the child may ntually lose his faith. Parents should let the child make decisions, which can hon e his ability to deal with pblems. No parents can accompan y the child for a lifetime. Only children are responsible for th emselves, can an independent person svive and succeed in this world.