How to live a happy life？

 In the article,the Leading man have several times to choose one gift that is valuable.Maybe the begining of them is different but the end is similar.

     Now,please follow me to see it.The first time that the Leading man chose a gift from the fairy,his behavior is “‘There is no need to consider' ; and he chose Pleasure."Now,he is pleasure and he think that it is very easy to choose what is valuable.Then the second time that he chose,his behavior become "The man considerelong,".This transformation process show us that  the Leading man get to know that this choice is a bit difficult.Later,the third time he chose,his behavior is" The man reflected long, then chose Fame."The Leading man reflected long.The writer use "reflect" and "long",which mean that the Leading man is unable to make up his mind and he do not know which is right and even he had chose Fame,he is susept whether it is right.The forth time ,his words is  “Wealth—which is power! How blind I was!”He made choice as quickly as the first time.From his words,we can feel that he is sure that that the choice this time is right. From this four choices,we can get to know the Leading man‘s psychological change.At first,he think this choice is so easy that he made choice quickly and is very sure that his choice is right.Then,after going through the sad ending of the wrong choice,he become unsure about his choice.Before making choices,he started to think long.However,after three wrong choices,he suddenly get the idea that he know which is right.So he make up his mind quickly.But,the god does not press him,and this time,he seems to be wrong again.

       Having seen his choices,there seems to be nothing wrong.But,why is it that every time his end is sad?

       As far as I can see,the  Leading man's sad ending is from his ignorance of happy time and things in life and his insatiability .So there comes a new question,how can the Leading man and us to live a happy life?

      The answer is so easy.It is learn to cherish the happy  time and things in life and be content.

       First, learn to cherish the happy  time and things in life.In the article,the Leading man can only see the bad things in life.For example,when he has love,he just sees that his dearest lying in the coffin,but forgot the happy time when they are together.When he has fame,he only sees the envy; detraction; calumny and hate that come with fame,but ignore the good together with it.In this world,there is nothing can be absolutely good.Everything have two sides.If we just see the bad sad,the word is too terible to live in.So we should try to find out the good side of life.That is to say,we should find beauty in life and learn to cherish the happy  time and things in life.

      Second,be content.There is an old saying in China that is content is happiness.The Leading man alwys think this choice is bad,and ignorce the  the happy  time and things in life .This may be because he always think that he still has other choices.In life,there are many people always think  that waht they do not have is good.With this thought,they will find the life now is filled with the bad.If you ask me,we should be content so that can we live a happy life.

      In short,only when we learn to cherish the happy  time and things in life and be content,can we   live a happy life.

2015-04-19

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