carmen

 In our lives, the giver has often blamed the other in this way. I am for you to change, you should be worthy of my efforts. In fact, one should not change for anyone. What you do is just a choice made by an adult. Don Joseph, for example, chose to become a robber, not because of Carmen's will, but because of his own. If he didn't want to, Carmen wouldn't change his mind by threatening him with death.