Yes,Mr.Rochester is not a very suitable choice in terms of age and
appearance, but in getting along with Jane Eyre, he will have his own
views, but he will also compromise with her demands, and be willing to
understand Jane Eyre's ideas, which is based on deep love.
No.Although Mr.
Rochester quite loved Jane, his love was deceitful. When he proposed
to Jane Eyre, he did not tell Jane Eyre he has been married, and his
wife was still alive. And he was twenty years older than Jane Eyre and
he almost could be her father.