Interaction in love

The most moving thing in this book is the pure, hot but secret love from a little girl. It's all devotion and dedication herself secretly for the man she loved without payback. Although what she did will hardly happen in real life, she reminded me of my first love where i soaked myself all and a question about whether love should be open or secret. My answer is open. Love needs interaction. No one feels what you feel exactly. So no matter what you've done and what you're suffering, others won't feel it all right if you don't talk about it. Secret love is not good and not fair for both you and the one you love. First you do something that will not have feedback all along and you may be tired some day but still don't earn a thing in love. That's a harm for your body and soul. Then the one you love knows nothing and just be himself but receives your complains at the very end of your love with vacant surprise and sadness. He'll not feel what you feel and you won't get what you want. So, is that really worth doing? I don't think so. The man in the books will just be surprised and sorrowful for some time that someone has loved himself so much but had gone. But he would never feel the love and the pain exactly and just live as before after that. So this sacrifice is useless actually. But life is just cruel like this, we have to admit. Interaction is well needed in love. Walk into his life brightly like sunshine, let him know what you think and finally get what you want, no matter it's a good or bad ending. At least, you've tried. Never hide your love.