看完第一章到第十章所悟出的道理

From Chapter 1 to Chapter 10 of 'Sense and Sensibility', the following truth can be understood:Firstly, family ties may become fragile in the face of wealth and interests. Under the influence of his wife, John broke his promise to his father and reduced financial assistance to his stepmother and sisters, demonstrating the corrosive effect of money on interpersonal relationships. It reminds people to be vigilant about the negative impact of material interests on emotions, and even in the face of economic temptations, they should adhere to family and moral responsibilities.Secondly, love is complex. Mary Ann fell in love with Willoughby at first sight and devoted herself wholeheartedly, not listening to others' advice, which reflects the potential harm of loving solely based on emotional impulses. Eleanor, while also having deep affection towards Edward, was more restrained. This indicates that reason is necessary in love, one should not be blinded by passion, and one should know how to distinguish the other person's true character.Additionally, regarding the evaluations and secrets of others. Colonel Brandon revealed Willoughby's past to Eleanor, allowing us to see that rumors and others' evaluations may affect our own judgment of a person. At the same time, Eleanor chose to keep the secret of Edward's engagement confidential, which reflects the need for honesty and kindness when facing others' privacy, even if the secret would cause her great pain.