助你拓展社交圈的6个好办法

胖太米

Whether you’re interested in advancing your career, or having a new group of friends to go out with, you need to learn—and perhaps master—the skill of making friends. In this article, I would like to share with you 6 tips that will help you expand your social circles.

无论你是想拓展事业，还是扩张朋友圈，你都需要学习-甚至是掌握-交友技能。在此，将与大家共享6个扩展社交圈的招数。

2014-03-05

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  6.Know the Kind of Friends You Want in Advance

  Before you start investing more time on making friends, do a little planning. Try to figure out what kind of people you want to hang out with. List out a few qualities, character traits, or interests that you like. This is important because it allows your mind to quickly tell if a person you meet could be a great fit for you.

  6.提前了解自己想要结交怎样的朋友

  在投资时间去交朋友前，做一个小小的策划。试着弄清楚你想要与什么样的人出去闲逛。不妨列出一些对方的品质、性格特征或与你对味的兴趣爱好。这个方式之所以重要是因为它

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  5.Reach Out to People On a Regular Basis

  Staying in touch is vital if you want to keep your social circles alive. You need to follow up with the people you just met, and catch up with existing friends. The challenge here is that we tend to get distracted and forget about it, and regret later on.

  5.保持定期联系

  如果你想要维持社交圈的人脉，那么保持联系是至关重要的一点。你需要追上新朋友的步伐，还要关注老友的动态。其中的挑战在于我们往往会分心，又因分心而忘记，接着再生悔意。

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  4.Commit to a Local Community

  One of the fastest ways to boost your social life is to get involved in a community that has the type of people that you want as friends. This community should be in your local area and should hold social get-togethers once a month, or more.

  4.致力于当地社区活动

  促进社交生活最快速的方式之一就是参加社区活动，加入到那个有你想与之交友的社团里。这个社团得在你们当地区域，并且至少每月举行一次或更多的聚会。

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  3.Establish Yourself As a Giver of Value

  When meeting lots of people, you have to “hook”. Nothing hooks better than having a giver attitude. First, listen really to what they say and imagine if you were them; see the world through their eyes. Second, be willing to share stories, contacts, or quick advice on what people are talking about.

  3.塑造布施者的价值观

  当参加众人聚会时，你得“做钩”。没有什么会比布施者的态度更能钩人了。首先，仔细倾听别人，并换位思考；由他们的视野去观摩世界。然后，诚挚地分享你的故事、故人，或及时给对方所说所讲提出建议。

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  2.Meet New People Constantly

  A great habit to have is to always be meeting people that you can add to your circles. In reality, not all the people you meet will become your friends and not all your current friends will be around forever. This is why I always say that if you’re not making new friends, you’re actually making fewer.

  2.不断认识不同的人

  不断认识新人是拓展交际圈的极佳习惯。现实中，并非所有你遇见的人都会成为朋友，也并非你现在所有的朋友都会永伴左右。这也是我为何总是说如果你没有结识新的朋友，那说明你的朋友在减少。

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  1.Connect With Connectors

  A great way to expand your social circle is to connect to someone through whom you’ll meet many other people. Those “connectors” are the types of people who keep friends on Facebook by the thousands, host parties whenever they can, and always seem to be with a large group of people.

  1.与社交达人来往

  有一个拓展社交圈的好办法，那就是与活跃于社交圈的人来往。那些“社交达人们”正是在脸书上有着成千上万粉丝的人群，他们会随心所欲地举办派对，在别人眼中他们也总是成群结队。

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