some questions

There is no denying that I learned a lot from Grimm's fairy tales, but I also have some questions, why the princess or the cursed person in the story has to wait for someone to save her, why she can't save herself. In my opinion, this is likely to create a perception that girls are weak, but they are not.Secondly, whether some of the stories in this book are satirical or not, for example, in the chapter wise folk, the peasant's behavior is by no means clever, but treacherous.This is all my qiestions about this book.Except for it ,I have learnt kindness,honest ,gratitude from this book and its word is not so hard for English beginner,so in total ,it is a book worth reading.