一直走在阳光里(Keep Walking in Sunshine)书评_中英双语在线阅读

李怡欣

“ing her such pain? “I know your husband passed away, more than...” 全部笔记（1）去书内

I know your husband passed away, more than a year ago,” the owner said, “I knew you’d call and you would want to know. The flowers you received today were paid for in advance. Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to change. There is a standing order that I have on file down here, and he has paid, well in advance, you’ll get them every year. There is also another thing that I think you should know. He wrote a special little card...he did it years ago. Then, should ever I find out that he’s no longer here, that’s the card. . . that should be sent to you the following year.” She thanked him and hung up the phone, her tears now flowing hard. Her fingers shaked as she slowly reached to get the card...Inside the card, she saw that he had written her a note. Then, as she stared in total silence, this is what he wrote… “Hello, my love, I know it’s been a year since I’ve been gone, I hope it hasn’t been too hard for you to overcome. I know it must be lonely, and the pain is very real. For if it were the other way, I knowhow I would feel. The love we shared made everything so beautiful in life. I loved you more than words can say, you were the perfect wife. You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need. I know it’s only been a year, but please try not to grieve. I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears. That is why the roses will be sent to you for years. When you get these roses, think of all the happiness that we had together and how both of us were blessed. I have always loved you and I know I always will. But, my love, you must go on, you have some living still. Please… try to find happiness, while living out your days. I know it is not easy, but I hope you find some ways.

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李怡欣

“However, it was not long after our honeymoon when my husband...” 全部笔记（1）去书内

然而，我们的蜜月还没过多久，我丈夫就爬进了那个叫做“办公室”的坟墓，把自己的思绪裹在一层又一层的文件里，把自己埋在客户工作里，而我什么也没说，生怕自己变成一个唠叨的妻子。仿佛一夜之间，我们之间竖起了一堵无形的墙。我们的女儿黛西出生后，她很快成为了我的世界的中心。我看着她从婴儿长到蹒跚学步的孩子，我似乎再也不在乎丈夫越来越忙，花在家的时间越来越少。在他的工作安排、我们的家和年幼的女儿之间，我们逐渐失去了联系。那堵无形的墙，现在正被冷漠的灰浆加固。黛西上幼儿园后，我重返大学完成学位，我试图在所选的课程中找回自己。我和校园里其他年轻女性一样抱怨男人的无感。

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李怡欣

“To get a thorough understanding of oneself also requires doing...” 全部笔记（1）去书内

要彻底了解自己，也需要在需要的时候善待自己。在生气的时候，善待自己，把情绪发泄在一个安静的地方，这样就不会被怒火伤到；在伤心的时候，善待自己，把心情和朋友分享，把阴郁的情绪变成愉快的；在疲倦的时候，善待自己，好好睡一觉或者补充些营养。对自己的健康和日常生活表现出关心。正如你所知道的，一个人的身体只是暴露在外界容易受伤的肉体。所以如果生病了，就得自己好好照顾自己。除非你完全清楚什么时候以及如何善待自己，否则你不会有足够的信心和准备来抵御疾病的侵袭。

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