How mean the man is!His want to enjoy the pleasure of staying with Kitty,but he do not want to be responsiple for the young lady.However,  unconsicious of his real thought, the poor Kitty is still waiting for and dreaming of his proposl.From this point,we can have a deep understanding of

the unfairness for women at that age.In the meanwhile.I am glad to live in the modern world,where I can choose my own favorite job,work hard to realize

my dream and my value,and find my loved one by myself.

   It is just because their parents' arrangement to their marriage that

Oblonksy did not love his wife all the time.As a matter of fact,their marriage was set up on the basis of money and power,so they was bound to

live together without sincere love.However ,girls have the  choices to their

husbands,but plenty of them would rather to get married to an old but welthy man.How sad it is!Worse still,a lot of couples who used to love each other , get divorses in seven years,which is called The Seven Year Itch . Their love

fades for trifling matters of everyday life,not for great challenges.

 I think that the middle-aged woman is just used to live with her husband and attractive to her husband's handsome face,not loving her husband really.

It is unfair that after a woman spend almost all her time on her family and she is not good-looking as before,her husband do not love her any more and her

husband even has an affair and wants to get a divorce with her.It is no denying the fact that women become old quicker than men and men as time goes by.From my point of view,women deserve more respect and care from society

and men.

Before the People's Republic of China was built,most marriages were  arranged by parents or the elders,which is called arranged marriage.Under

arranged marriages,plenty of couples just met with their spouses once or twice with their parents' company,even some couples didn't see their spouses

before they got marriaged.There is no doubt that there was no love between

a lot of couples at that time.Maybe some couples could fell in love with their

spouses after a long period of living together.But in my opinion,arranged marriages are  sacrifices of quantities of young people's love.

    Nowadays,temptation can  be  seen  everywhere.There is no doult that temptation is attractive to  us.Under the temptation of money, power,fame and

woman's beauty,plenty of  government officials are arrested because of corruption,a lot of bussinessmen are arrested because they break the rules,and quantities of men have affairs just like the host.Many men have affairs just because they are attractive to the feeling of freshness,after which they may regret their momentary impulse.But it is too late,because their family will have been hurt by their act.So, we 'd better learn to  refuse improper temptation.