What is true love like?

Jane and Mr. Rochester explain the question perfectly. 

First, both the two do not care about their status, wealth and appearance, but whether they are mutual fit. They love each other by the talk of their mind and soul, but not the treasure. At first, Mr. Rochester wanted to give Jane everything beautiful and luxurious to Jane, after experiencing the fire, he understood that the communication of the spirits is enough. Also, even though Mr. Rochester lost one of his arm and his eyesight, Jane did not dislike him. On the contrary, she love him even more than before.

Second, the true love is, in front of your mate, you can live freely and show your original appearance. You will feel happy at any time with him/her. In front of Mr. Rochester, Jane can talk everything to him and play tricks on him, so does Mr. Rochester. But in front of St. John, Jane can only restrain her nature and obey St. John, do everything to satisfy him. In their relation, one of the two is not happy, one is to please the other one. They are not equal. But a basic standard of true love is that they should be equal to each other, no one controls the other one and no one gives in the other one.

Third, trust each other totally. Jane and Mr. Rochester trust each other totally. When Mr. Rochester could not see the world, Jane helped him and he was willing to let her help. Jane also trust Mr. Rochester unconditionally and accompany him all the time. They both knew the other one treat themselves sincerely and love themselves deeply, which is the love at its best.

2023-01-29

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