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释放灵魂-独自旅行的意义

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While it’s wonderful to share a special trip and new experiences with friends, a partner, or family, there’s a compelling case for travel alone from time to time. Solo travel can work for anyone, whether you’re single, in a relationship, extroverted, or introverted, and here are 9 good reasons why you should try it.

与朋友、伴侣或家人分享难忘的旅途和新鲜的经历虽很美妙,但我们仍拒绝不了偶尔的单独旅行。无论你是单身、恋爱、爽朗或内敛,都可以去体验。以下是独自旅行的9个意义。

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    有时,单身的你会傻傻等待约会对象出现才动身旅行,而之后的旅行对这恋人未满的感情毫无积极或消极影响可言。如果恋情没有好转,那么整个旅行将会成为让你懊悔十足、充满幻想的悲剧。但若你能安然地独自启程,你就会打消等待“某人”出现一起上路的念头。并且,你会一直单独走下去,直到注定的那个人出现,为你打造精彩、全新的回忆。

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    9. No drama 不抱幻想。

    Sometimes, when you’re single, you wait until you’re dating someone before you take a vacation away, and these trips can either make or break a fledgling relationship. If things don’t go well, the entire trip can be a miserable, drama-filled time you’d love to forget. When you get good at traveling alone, you can stop waiting for “someone” to take on vacation. Instead, you can continue to go alone until someone really worthy comes along to help you make some brilliant new memories.


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    我不建议你每个假期都是与伴侣分开度过,但对于爱人们来说,偶尔的短暂离别能带来新鲜感。在你们预先约定恋爱时可以追求个人兴趣时,便增强了信任。经历了一场单独旅行,回到你爱人身边,此时你们都会明白当初看上对方的原因。还有,如果你在旅途中找到了一个佳处,那你大可带上爱人再去一次。

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    8. Absence makes the heart grow fonder 小别胜新婚。

    I don’t suggest you spend every vacation opportunity away from your partner, but doing so once in a while can be refreshing for a couple. When you set the precedent in your relationship that it’s OK to pursue individual interests, trust is enhanced. Coming home to your partner after a solo trip can remind each of you why you dig each other in the first place. As a bonus, if you find a favorite place when you’re alone, you can always bring your sweetie along another time.


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    7. Great service 贴心的服务。

    For some reason, service at hotels and restaurants seems better when you’re traveling single. People tend to admire those who travel solo, and it’s possible that when you make it known, you could be in for a sweet room upgrade.

    出于某些原因,当你独自旅行时,酒店和餐厅的服务似乎会更好。因为人们倾向于崇拜那些独自上路的人,并且如果你将其示众,可能还会受到升级甜蜜套房的待遇。

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    如果旅行能够让你变得更优秀,更睿智,那么单独旅行便能让你变得异常优秀,异常睿智。对于任何人来说,如果独自坐在餐厅吃早餐会感觉不自在的话,那一个人的旅行可能就是望而却步了。可一旦你突破自我,克服胆怯,你将感受到一股能量。一场圆满的单独旅行可以激励你去尝试更多人生中害怕的事情。

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    6. It’s empowering 它能赋予你力量。

    If traveling makes you a better, smarter person, then traveling alone makes you super-better and super-smarter. For any of you who may feel uncomfortable even sitting alone at a diner to have breakfast, taking a trip by yourself might seem daunting. Once you take the plunge and get over your fears, you’ll feel a sense of empowerment. A successful solo vacation can inspire you to tackle even more things in life you’ve been afraid to try.


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    你曾经因想做个渴望已久的水疗,又不忍将旅伴丢下不管而犹豫不决吗?但在独自旅行时,除了自己,你不用去取悦任何人。如果你想“花费”半日时光在户外酒吧喝点鸡尾酒而非去观光,那你用不着去征求别人的意见。

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    5. Do everything you want and nothing you don’t want 做你想做的,不要勉强自己。

    Have you ever been hesitant to do that half-day at the spa you were longing for because you felt bad leaving your travel partner with nothing to do? When you travel alone, you are not obliged to entertain anyone but yourself. If you want to “waste” the day sitting at an outdoor bar drinking mojitos instead of sightseeing, you won’t have to answer to anyone.


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    若你生来开朗,一个人的旅行将是你结识当地居民和新朋友的绝佳方式。通常,人们在独身的情况下会对别人表现得更为亲昵。在这之前,你可以跟有趣的人在街边咖啡店闲聊,也可以跟一群志同道合的人参加沙滩瑜伽。前提是要心胸开阔又能谨慎小心,特别是在异地他乡。

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